Tales from the Other Side - стр. 7
The ancestral curse appears when the balance in the family is disturbed. For example, your grandmother fell in love with your grandfather when he was engaged with her best friend. Friendship was ruined, and a friend was offended and put a curse. It may be in verbal form literally screaming: “I hate you and I curse you” or have this pain deep in her heart. And your grandmother is ok, but her grandchildren are not, they are single and nobody knows the reason. It lies beneath logic, and the curse energy is very strong.
There are situations when the head of the family could not protect his relatives. For example, the father of the family went to war, left everyone, and his wife was offended that he abandoned her. And this energy of resentment remains in the family and does not go anywhere. There is the main problem – the energy stays in a circle and is not released, like a ball in a confined space, and somehow affects all family members.
Sometimes mother curses her own child – this could happen if mother suffered from pain from her lover or parents were against marriage. A lot of variations, but in general this pain stays within ancestral system. That’s what I have to do spiritually – to remove this resentment, this hurt. Even cases with sudden strong alcohol addiction being 30 years old when all descendants became alcoholics out of solidarity to the first drinker, have the base. There should be an initial reason why he had an addiction, usually unbearable pain – loss, hurt, etc. I should dig a little deeper and work with it now – while we have time and possibility. Sometimes it’s too late.
According to my experience, the ancestral curse is removed quite quickly, and if you have to do 10 sessions for that (for example, within systemic constellation program), there is something wrong. At the energy level everything works instantly, perhaps just your psyche is not able to accept such a speed. But the fact is that magic works either immediately or not at all.
Playing with death
Everybody has a friend who plays with death – extreme races, motorcycles, base-jumping, etc. And it’s not about adrenaline, this is literally challenging the Death. Sometimes it sounds like “Death, I’m not scared of you”. It sounds brave and reckless. Just remember, that the spirit of death is unpredictable and it may just stop the game and the person dies. Looks like casino – casino always wins. And death always wins. Gambling is unacceptable. Law of cause and effect works here – if you neglect the security rules, sooner or later the rules neglect you. In real life the person starts to be careless, which leads to fatal errors. From the spiritual point view if there is Death walking around, if you talk about it too much, you mention it often then you attract it into your life and you play with it, you gamble. The death is interested, and the person may rethink his behavior, turn into awareness and the Death loses its interest, “ok, let him live”. If the person played a black magician and attracted the chain of negative event into his life and he decided to apologize in his mind or making a ritual – ok, sorry, wrong door, then he will be forgiven if the damage is not very huge. In spiritual world nobody really wants to hurt you unless you cross the line. Not helping, not hurting – until you ask for it. Until you show your will. That’s how free will works.